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# If Only He Knew: A Valuable Guide to Knowing, Understanding, and Loving Your Wife

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Review: Essential Guide for Husbands Seeking Better Understanding - Pros: • Practical advice for strengthening marriage and deepening connection • Clear, relatable language with examples that resonate • Helps husbands understand a wife’s emotional needs and perspectives • Great tool for personal growth and relationship improvement Cons: • Focuses mainly on traditional roles, which may not suit all couples • Some ideas may feel repetitive to those familiar with relationship books This book is a valuable resource for husbands who want to truly connect with their wives, offering thoughtful insights and practical tips to enhance understanding and love.
Review: Great read, even for the non-religious - As a husband currently confronted with a marital crisis of my own making, I desperately searched desertcart for books that might help me navigate these scary and uncertain times and find my way back to my wife. I quickly found and purchased half a dozen books and have began devouring them, including this one. The description, author biography, low price ($1.99) and large number of 5-star reviews had me quickly clicking "buy now". As a non-religious person, when I actually began reading this book I was initially very dismayed when I started seeing references to God and biblical scriptures. If I had read some of the low-star reviews that mention this, I probably would not have purchased this.... ...and that would have been my great loss. There is so much good information in this book, most of which stands on it's own without the religious content. I finished three of the other six books I purchased before beginning "If He Only Knew", and while the information in this book reinforces a lot of the concepts talked about in the others, the author communicates in a very personal and organic way that I found extremely helpful and comforting, making the information much easier to relate to and absorb. Some of the other books I've read, while also informative and helpful, often seem to be written by those with an academic psychological background which can sometimes feel a bit...clinical...for lack of a better term. As an analogy, while the other books might be perfectly prepared meals from a fine dining establishment, this book feels more like warm comfort food. Both can be appreciated and enjoyed for what they are, and do not take away from the other. Even if you are non-religious like myself, if you are a married man, you should read this book. If you aren't in crisis with your marriage yet, this book can help you prevent ever reaching that point. For those in crisis like myself, I believe the principles and lessons can absolutely help you find your way back to your partner and marriage if you are willing to put in the effort. If you can't get past the infrequent religious references to see all the great information presented here, you are still putting yourself and your beliefs first over your spouse. Instead, follow the teaching of Bruce Lee..."Absorb what is useful, reject what is useless, add what is essentially your own." Don't get hung up on petty details, do whatever it takes to put your spouse first.

## Technical Specifications

| Specification | Value |
|---------------|-------|
| Best Sellers Rank | #47,917 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #100 in Christian Men's Issues #157 in Christian Marriage (Books) #203 in Marriage |
| Customer Reviews | 4.6 4.6 out of 5 stars (1,040) |
| Dimensions  | 5.52 x 0.54 x 8.48 inches |
| Edition  | Revised |
| ISBN-10  | 0310328381 |
| ISBN-13  | 978-0310328384 |
| Item Weight  | 2.31 pounds |
| Language  | English |
| Print length  | 192 pages |
| Publication date  | April 28, 2012 |
| Publisher  | Zondervan |

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## Customer Reviews

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Essential Guide for Husbands Seeking Better Understanding
*by J***Z on October 29, 2024*

Pros: • Practical advice for strengthening marriage and deepening connection • Clear, relatable language with examples that resonate • Helps husbands understand a wife’s emotional needs and perspectives • Great tool for personal growth and relationship improvement Cons: • Focuses mainly on traditional roles, which may not suit all couples • Some ideas may feel repetitive to those familiar with relationship books This book is a valuable resource for husbands who want to truly connect with their wives, offering thoughtful insights and practical tips to enhance understanding and love.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Great read, even for the non-religious
*by B***R on March 21, 2018*

As a husband currently confronted with a marital crisis of my own making, I desperately searched Amazon for books that might help me navigate these scary and uncertain times and find my way back to my wife. I quickly found and purchased half a dozen books and have began devouring them, including this one. The description, author biography, low price ($1.99) and large number of 5-star reviews had me quickly clicking "buy now". As a non-religious person, when I actually began reading this book I was initially very dismayed when I started seeing references to God and biblical scriptures. If I had read some of the low-star reviews that mention this, I probably would not have purchased this.... ...and that would have been my great loss. There is so much good information in this book, most of which stands on it's own without the religious content. I finished three of the other six books I purchased before beginning "If He Only Knew", and while the information in this book reinforces a lot of the concepts talked about in the others, the author communicates in a very personal and organic way that I found extremely helpful and comforting, making the information much easier to relate to and absorb. Some of the other books I've read, while also informative and helpful, often seem to be written by those with an academic psychological background which can sometimes feel a bit...clinical...for lack of a better term. As an analogy, while the other books might be perfectly prepared meals from a fine dining establishment, this book feels more like warm comfort food. Both can be appreciated and enjoyed for what they are, and do not take away from the other. Even if you are non-religious like myself, if you are a married man, you should read this book. If you aren't in crisis with your marriage yet, this book can help you prevent ever reaching that point. For those in crisis like myself, I believe the principles and lessons can absolutely help you find your way back to your partner and marriage if you are willing to put in the effort. If you can't get past the infrequent religious references to see all the great information presented here, you are still putting yourself and your beliefs first over your spouse. Instead, follow the teaching of Bruce Lee..."Absorb what is useful, reject what is useless, add what is essentially your own." Don't get hung up on petty details, do whatever it takes to put your spouse first.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Great Book
*by M***. on September 29, 2025*

This a great book on becoming the man God and your wife want you to be. It teaches where you need to work and utilizes the ultimate guide book, the Bible, as reference.

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