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# Irresistible Attraction: Secrets of Personal Magnetism Paperback – January 1, 2000

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### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars







  
  
    An Excellent Primer on Developing Personal Magnetism
  

*by C***T on Reviewed in the United States on January 14, 2009*

The first thing that impresses about this book is that there are a great many useful and specific examples of "shoulds" and "shouldn'ts" offered throughout, rather than just general advice and vague suggestions.When taking a woman out to a restaurant, where should you sit in relation to her?  Directly across, adjacent to her on her right, or adjacent to her on her left?  Does it matter?  (It does.)What type of jewelry should men wear to enhance their appearance?  Or should they wear any at all?  (The answer's in the book.)If I want to show interest in someone how long should I maintain eye contact? (Too short a time can be seen as dismissive.  Too long might make them uncomfortable.)If you find the questions above the least bit interesting, this book is for you.And fortunately, the material in the book is backed up by solid psychological research, so it's not just the opinions of the authors.On another note, I was surprised to find any outright negative reviews of this book, but you will find a few here.  But keep a few things in mind when making your decision whether or not to buy this book.*** This is not a book on "seduction," per se.  If you looking for a book on how to be a pick-up artist and con unsuspecting women into sleeping with you, this book's not for you.*** This book does have occasional grammatical mistakes and typos.  If occasional typos drive you to distraction and keep you from learning from excellent material, you may need a different type of book.*** *Some* of the advice in this book may strike as "common sense."  Unfortunately, this is the bane of research in social psychology (the field of psychology that studies how most people behave in given situations.)  Many of its conclusions seem like common sense, after the fact.  For example, everyone knows that "birds of a feather flock together."  But... everyone also "knows" that "opposites attract."  So, which is it? (It's birds of a feather.)  But whatever the research finds, someone will say, "Oh, that's just common sense."In summary, if you're look for a easy-to-read book, filled to the gills with practical, research-backed advice on increasing your attractiveness to the opposite sex, you couldn't do much better than buying this excellent guide.

### ⭐⭐⭐⭐ 4.0 out of 5 stars







  
  
    good advice
  

*by M***A on Reviewed in the United States on October 6, 2010*

This was quite a good book, with useful hints. Although much of it is geared toward attracting the opposite sex for purposes of dating, it is also useful for social situations in general, or work-related situations.  One of the main points is that charismatic people tend to focus on the other person and make the other person feel good about themselves, which is then projected back to you because they feel good about themselves in your presence and therefore like to be around you.  One thing the book didn't really address, though, was how to deal with people who already think too highly of themselves, are already completely self involved, or who tend to go into a monologue.

### ⭐⭐ 2.0 out of 5 stars







  
  
    Some good ideas but I can not whole-heartedly recommend it
  

*by A***. on Reviewed in the United States on November 16, 2007*

This book contains some materials useful for general reader regarding how to be an attractive person, both in friendship and love life. I found the discussion regarding body language especially helpful (one of the two authors, Kevin Hogan, is mentioned in the back cover to be an authority in body language). I only gave two stars to this book for the following reasons:1- On the average, in every page of the book there was either a typing or a grammatical error. It is quite apparent that the authors and the editor did not take any time to reread the book. Sometimes, in my opinion, the mistakes are quite embarrassing (for example, on page 230, the name of the well-known couple-psychologist Harville Hendrix is written as Harville Haddix). Generally, such mistakes distracted me from focusing on the points that the book was making.2- Sometimes an idea was presented that was such an over-generalization that it lost its validity. For example, on page 26 it is stated that "There is little that a woman possesses that can entice a man beyond her physical attractiveness. This doesn't mean that if a woman is not physically attractive that she has no opportunity to find happiness. It does mean that physical attractiveness is far and away the number one trait that men look for in women. No other individual trait comes close to a woman's appearance." In the same page it continues "Men do not find women attractive because of their wealth, their success, and their potential for achievement. Men are not typically impressed or attracted to women who have succeeded in business or done anything remarkable. The makeup of men is much different in attraction." I do believe that the above statement may be true about some men and certainly physical attractiveness is generally very important for men in the initial stage(s) of interaction, but later other factor may enter into consideration beside the woman's degree of attraction. If women's attractiveness was the only criterion that men considered when choosing women, then one would expect that all married women should be attractive. Certainly this is not the case and men do value other traits of a woman, albeit the fact that they do over-value attractiveness.3- Throughout the book, there were statements written in bold face and placed in a box, apparently to emphasize the point of the statement. Unfortunately, sometimes it appeared that statements were randomly chosen so that they were not the main point of the subject being discussed (for example, page 107). Other times the boxed statement could not be understood unless you read the text. For example, on page 96 the statement read "It is highly recommended to spend some time in front of mirror making faces at yourself".4- In some pages, there were references mentioned that were not included in the bibliography (for example pages 44-45). The bibliography itself is only one page and it would have been best to be eliminated entirely since it is so short.5- A large part of the book was devoted to statement that were common sense and an average adult with some general information should already know them.So although the book does have some good ideas, I can not recommend the book for the adult reader. However, it may be still useful for a teenager or young adult.I would also like to mention that many of the 5 star review were probably done by authors' friends.

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