A Love That Multiplies: An Up-Close View of How They Make It Work Paperback – March 6, 2012

I am not sure why I picked up A Love That Multiplies by Michelle and Jim Bob Duggar. Up until Tuesday, when I caught a 19 Kids and Counting marathon on TLC, I've never watched the show before, nor read their previous books. But their philosophies on children and child-rearing and their faith intrigued me, so I picked this book up.The book is not so much a memoir, as an up-close, conversational look at the Duggar family's daily life, and the events surrounding young Josie's birth. Topics range from managing the home and packing for trips, to homeschooling such a large group, to taking care of bad behavior from young ones at the first incident. Interspersed between each section and story is a favorite recipe, a list of snacks, or general home management tips.They talk a lot about their faith, which is a very central part of their lives, and I can appreciate the way that it is really shaped their decisions as a family. Michelle and Jim Bob do not just say that children are a gift from the Lord, they live their lives as a testament to that as they arrange their days to teach their children and to spend time with them. Based on this book, it would appear that although the Duggar children may have some pretty strict rules on internet usage, and they may not own the latest and greatest gadgets, the Duggar children develop practical life skills and conflict resolutions skills from incredibly early age, making them more mature than their peers.The writing was okay, more conversational in nature which doesn't always translate well to the page. There was also the assumption that the reader had both watched 19 Kids and Counting or read their previous book, as they made many references to the show, or referred to things they had shared in their previous book. While I can appreciate that they didn't want to bore readers with repeated information, it tended to make things feel choppy and incomplete.Overall, I liked the book, and I really appreciate the Duggar family and their commitment to their faith. I would recommend the book to young parents, or to those looking to a non-traditional story of those choosing to live out their faith. I give A Love That Multiplies three stars.

Michelle and Jim Bob from the TLC show have given us another peak into their life and parenting style. The book begins right before the birth of their last and nineteenth child. About half of the book deals with the trails and blessings that accompanied her birth. The other half of the book talks about their marriage, parenting style, and how they deal with issues that come their way. The book includes recipes and black and white photographs to accompany each chapter.I'm not a huge fan of the show. I've enjoyed the couple of times that I watched, but it really isn't my thing. I read the book only because it was picked for my book club.That being said, I did enjoy reading it. I certainly don't agree with everything that was mentioned. But I also learned some new and interesting things. The authors often refer to the show or previous book so I'm not sure if it contributed to my confusion or not; but the book felt a bit choppy and disjointed at times. In summery, it was a neat book that was a nice break from what I normally read. I think fans of the show will really enjoy this extra glimpse into a unique family.

I was hoping for more practical information on the Duggar parents child-rearing practices that do not relate specifically to their religious beliefs but their religious faith is so intertwined with their child-rearing that is not possible. However, I have picked up the importance of praising children for specific behaviors much more often than correcting them and have implemented this practice with my grandchildren with good results. I have found that I enjoy the grandchildren more and that the need for discipline (correction) is greatly reduced. Although I admire much that the Duggars stand for, I have major reservations about the manner in which they prepare their children for the future-evidently without college educations (there is no record that even attendance at Christian colleges is encouraged) or formal training that does not require a college degree. Lack of formal education will preclude their children from engaging in the professional careers (nurse, doctor, teacher, pastor, counselor, as well as many others) that truly serve a community. That said, it is refreshing to read about a family that does not engage in the disgusting culture that is commonly portrayed on TV and that has instead elevated family life to a much higher level.

I really enjoyed reading about the Duggars even though I have never seen the show myself. With all of the criticism I've heard here and there though I feel like I know the family after reading the book and they seem like friends. They seem so genuine and real and as much as it amazes me how they do it, it is a great testimony for the blessing of children and how God will supply all of your needs when you depend on him and live by His principles. The book has some excellent practical tips on living and homeschooling in particular. An honest look at their most difficult year and how they pulled together as a family with God's strength, and made it through and stronger yet. If only all families were that principled and loving today our society would be a different place. I don't see how anyone can criticize them when they are an example to all of us. Thank you Duggar family for following God's call in your life and letting him use you for his glory! Inspiring.

I liked the series on TLC and was looking forward to read more about this huge family and what drives them. The latter became quickly obvious. Page after page about the Lord and and how they see everything from a bible's perspective. In a way it was to be expected of course. In the show they have always been really open about their strong Christian beliefs.But the book...was...just...too...much. I wanted to get to know the family, the individual members and could have done without all the biblical quotes, bible lectures etc which make up the bulk of the book.

I've watched the Duggars eversince their 14 kids and counting, and building their houses series and although they're now up to 19 children and 2 grandchildren, they're as interesting as ever. It's so rare these days to see such a positive portrayal of a Christian family, it's a breath of fresh air! My own 2 daughters love the TV series as well, and we've already read through parts of the book together, which is both wholesome and informative. I'd recommend this to anyone!

Lovely book about a family who have worked hard to get where they are. A fabulous read into how they handle a big family and finances and washing! They have a wonderful loving home and support each other through everything. I loved learning about how they decided to leave it god to decided how many children they have, and how much they give to others, making time to visit other less fortunate countries and help as much as they can.Wonderful book, wonderful people.

I really enjoyed reading this book! It's about a family....a huge family....and how they live, homeschool etc. They live Biblically. I don't agree with ALL their ideas......like how they dress (the women)....but it was still an interesting read.

This book is a fascinating insight into the minds, hearts and faith that support the Duggar family. Whether you have Christian beliefs or not, this is a beautiful and compelling read and as a parent, it makes me want to be better every day.